by Kathryn Eggins | Featured Contributor
We’ve all had ‘those’ clients…
The ‘don’t-let-the-door-hit-you-on-the-way-out’ clients…
The ones who catch you off guard, constantly drain your energy, waste your time, want refunds and expect a lot more than you’ve offered…
Or the ones who raise their voices and start yelling because they’re upset about something…
Where on earth did they come from?
Why are they even in your space?
Is there anything you can do to reduce the chances of them multiplying?
The great news is…YES, there is and you’re in control!
Here’s 7 steps to help you to attract your soulmate clients…
1. Acknowledge that you’ve attracted ALL of your clients – the good AND the bad…
This can be a bit confronting when it comes to accepting that you’ve attracted the clients you’d rather not deal with, but the sooner you take responsibility for it the sooner you can send those unwanted clients energetically on their merry way and make room for clients you’d love to work with…
The way people treat you is not only a reflection of them, but it’s also a reflection of your inner world…
Which is great news because when you do the work to change your inner world, the less-than-satisfactory clients will find someone else to hone in on because you will no longer be on their vibrational radar…
2. Stop being a people pleaser and tolerating behaviour that isn’t in alignment – both from your clients and yourself
Just because someone has shown interest in working with you doesn’t mean you have to say yes.
If you have a client you don’t enjoy working with, sack them. Make the choice to only work with clients who make you feel great!
It can seem like a bad business practice to say no to clients, however, if you truly want to attract soulmate clients and do away with the clients who cause you grief, you have to stand your ground, be true to what is in alignment for you and choose to only work with clients who excite you.
It’s when you stop people pleasing and follow what is aligned for you that you’ll stop attracting the people who want you to live your life on their terms…
The longer you continue accepting the unwanted actions of the less than appealing clients and of yourself, the longer you will be on this less-than-happy attraction merry go round.
3. When you do have a less-than-satisfactory client, ask yourself what you’ve done to attract them into your life in the first place…
Take a step back and look at what you’ve been thinking and feeling…
Do you worry about people asking you for refunds? Do you worry what clients will think?
Regardless of what your doubts are, worry only serves to create situations that you don’t want, so take the time to look at your thoughts and your feelings and take steps to re-frame them so you can start attracting the clients and responses that you do want.
4. Take note of how you speak to and treat yourself
What’s your internal dialogue like? For many people, there is no way they would speak to someone else the way they speak to themselves. If that’s you, it’s time to change it. It’s time to start saying nice, positive things to yourself.
You will only see in other people traits that you have within yourself, so if people are not treating you the way you would like them to treat you, take a close look at how you speak to and treat yourself. Start treating yourself the way you want others to treat you and it will reflect in your clients.
5. Look at what they’re triggering in you and thank them
Instead of getting upset with these clients, thank them for showing you the way. Take a look at why they’re upsetting you and take aligned action to create a new scenario so you don’t attract them again. The only reason they’re upsetting you is because they’re showing you an area within you where you need to step up or an area that needs to be healed…
The area that is causing you to attract them in the first place.
Discover the trigger, ask yourself ‘why’, take aligned action and start doing things differently.
6. Shoot your less-than-ideal clients in the back with imaginary arrows of love
This serves two purposes…
Ok…I’ll just say it…it feels good to shoot them with imaginary arrows…get that out of your system…
But, it also brings your focus to the good in other people…
Most people are good people, even ‘those’ clients. You don’t know what’s going on in their life to cause them to act the way they do and it’s none of your business because, in the end, it’s your vibration that will determine if you attract them or not…
And when you raise your vibration by seeing the good in other people while aligning yourself with what you DO want, you will manifest your less-than-ideal clients out of your life.
7. Focus on your ideal client avatar
What are the qualities that you want in your clients? The more specific you are in what you want and align yourself with what you want, the more you will attract what you want.
Remember that for things to change, you need to change. The attraction of both your less-than-ideal clients AND your soulmate clients starts from within.
Be clear on the type of client you want to attract and stop putting up with anything less from both your clients and yourself.
Change your inner world and watch as your soulmate clients magically appear in your outer world.
Kathryn Eggins in an International Speaker, Writer, Entertainer AND Artist for kathryneggins.com
A self proclaimed BADASS Creator of Life, Kathryn’s soul purpose is to inspire and support others to tune in, connect with their soul and have fun designing a life based upon what their heart truly desires.
When she’s not travelling the world speaking, writing, creating her online TV show and sharing her message with the world, Kathryn can be found in her art studio painting and drawing portraits, at a venue singing for the masses or flying high at her local indoor skydiving center.
