When Failure is Your Middle Name by @KristianneWargo

When Failure is Your Middle Name

by Kristianne Wargo | Featured Contributor

No one ever wants to admit that they’ve failed at something. Unfortunately, success comes from multiple failures. But what do you do when failure is your middle name?

You keep hitting the brick walls, feeling distraught and ready to give up. Oh but wait! You can’t give up! You are destined for much more than where you are.

So what can you do when failure is your middle name?

You could do what the average person does, and run for the hills. Quit before you even start again. And don’t forget to press the replay button on your negative thoughts. Doesn’t that sound like a winner to you?

Now as a woman on a mission, the above is NOT something you want to embrace. Honestly though, we do embrace it too often and change our middle name to FAILURE!

Enough is enough!

No more pity games and playing in the “oh woes me” sandbox. That’s for quitters and women who choose NOT to impact.

But YOU, beautiful friend, are ready to create your now letting the failures carry you to higher ground.

There are three simple strategies you can use to break away from the chains of failure and embrace your successful future.

1. Let Your Fail Fall

First off, give yourself permission to acknowledge and recognize what you are feeling. However, don’t linger too long. No more than 24 hours. If it’s longer, then you need to get your blood pumping so you feel alive. Go for a run or a brisk walk. Let the fresh air clear your head.

Secondly, be intentionally with your failure. Let go of what has been done to you or against you. Let your fail fall. You can write out what happened and shred it to little pieces, or even burn it if you want something more dramatic.

2. Change Your Story

Where you get yourself into trouble is what you keep replaying in your head. Those thoughts can become quite disturbing. So change your story and what you are telling yourself. Take your thoughts captive and be deliberate on how you speak power in your head. The power rests in the words and how you tell your story.

Reframe your story to revive a sense of accomplishment even amidst the storm. Your failure can actually be your greatest asset. Look for that contribution in order to bring life to where you stand. Failure is the key to accelerating your dream to reality.

3. Pick Up Where You Left Off

Getting started after a failure is more than challenging. And I don’t make light of the struggles that come with failure. However, the best prescription for your success is to pick up where you left off. Simply put, what’s next?

You must get up and do what’s right in front of you. You have no reason to delay and try to figure out why the failure occurred in the first place. Get up and take that next step. Literally, that might mean, get out of bed and brush your teeth, because you’ve been in bed for 24 hours. No longer!

“You are created for more!
Your time to shine is NOW even when failure is your middle name!”


kristianne wargoKristianne Wargo, Life Coach, Founder and Host of Create Your Now

Kristianne Wargo is the founder of Create Your Now and the creator of My Strength is My Story.

She used to say “I’m just a mom.” Now she’s The K.I.S.S. Coach (The Keep It Simple Strategy Coach) dedicated to empowering and encouraging women in their life’s journey. You can listen to all the K.I.S.S.E.S. on her daily podcast, Create Your Now.

As a wife of 24 years, a mother of 5, and an entrepreneur (starting at a young age and CEO of 3 businesses), she shares with you tools and strategies learned to living a full life! One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!

After losing over 75 pounds, she completed her certifications as a life coach, personal trainer, and nutritionist. Her goal is helping you rediscover your passions, live your dreams, bring balance in your life all the while becoming your best selfie to create your now.

She currently writes for multiple publications along with speaking, coaching, podcasting, and producing Create Your Now TV (coming March 2017) on YouTube. Enjoy her newest series, “My Strength is My Story”, where everyday women share their life story. What’s your story?

Join Kristianne at CreateYourNow.com. Get ready to live, love, and impact. Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!

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