Twitter has been around for many years, and you’d think most people and brands would have the hang of it by now. Based on the number of tacky communications (direct messages and tweets) peeps send me each week, that’s not the case. As you know, there are no official rules for how to tweet. It’s the ultimate platform for self-expression, which I love. However, there is some unspoken etiquette, especially when it comes to asking for favors.
I’m on Twitter almost every day. I’ve sent over 150,000 tweets since 2009. I’ve been writing about polite Twitter etiquette for years, and I’ve noticed the trends are cyclical. Lately it seems the auto-DMs and cheesy, spammy requests for retweets are on the rise.
I think most people would agree there is nothing wrong with asking for favors on social media. Your success or failure with those requests will depend on how you ask. If you have not had any luck increasing your retweets by asking, this post is for you.
I put together some things to consider when asking for Twitter retweets (and other social media favors). I hope you find these helpful!
How to ask for Twitter Retweets the polite way:
1. Don’t ask for retweets on lukewarm content.
First of all, don’t waste your time asking for a retweet of lukewarm content. Make sure the content is badass.
2. Don’t make your first engagement a cold request for a retweet.
Very important – Don’t make your FIRST engagement with someone a request for a Twitter retweet (or Facebook like, etc). I’m talking directly to all you auto-DMers who immediately send a request to like your Facebook page every time someone follows you on Twitter.
3. Don’t ask strangers for a retweet.
Don’t ask someone you don’t know to retweet you. Build social media relationships before asking for social media favors. Failure is inevitable (and you’ll be assimilated by the Borg) if you put the cart before the horse.
4. Don’t be a taker.
Give more than you receive. If you want retweets, retweet more. The law of reciprocity is alive and well on Twitter.
5. Make your tweets more attractive.
Tap into the magic of three. Use a link, an image, and a hashtag in the tweet you’d like retweeted. All three of these things will make your tweet more attractive and appear more retweetable.
6. Just ask.
Instead of asking individual people to retweet your tweet, you might choose to put “Please RT” in your tweet. Several studies have shown that method to be quite effective. It is not offensive since it’s not a personal request.
7. Be retweetable.
If the title of the blog post you want retweeted isn’t clever or eye-catching, write something else in your tweet to make it more retweetable. Don’t get stuck in the rut of always using blog post titles in your tweets. Switch up the wording and get creative!
8. Be genuine on social media.
As @AhnaHendrix says, it’s very important to humanize your personal or professional brand. It’s one of the best and easiest hacks to gain more social media reach. @MarshaCollier puts her spin on the same concept below.
9. Work weekends.
Ask for retweets on the weekends too. It’s typically easier to get retweets on the weekends for whatever reason. There is a whole different Twitter crowd on the weekends. Think of weekday peeps and weekend peeps as two different groups of people.
10. Keep it simple.
Don’t use a lot of usernames in the tweet you’d like retweeted. Keep it light so it will fit successfully into more audiences and niches.
11. Be direct when asking for social media favors.
Recently someone emailed me to ask if he could send me the link to his post so I could retweet it, but he didn’t include the link in the email. I had to send an email to request the link. Then a day or two later he emailed the link. I still haven’t retweeted that post because by the time I received the link, I lost interest. Be direct and make it easy.
12. Don’t send auto-DMs.
What’s even worse are auto-DMs that say things like, “Welcome new follower.” It is annoying, and it screams spam and laziness. If you send useless messages like that, you’ll lose respect instantly. On social media, it’s a hard to get that mutual respect back (much less retweets) after it’s lost.
13. Choose your words.
Use a few of the 20 Most Retweetable Words in your tweet to make it more attractive.
14. Be grateful.
Don’t be a one hit wonder and disappear after your tweet is retweeted a lot. Instead, be grateful, reciprocate and continue to build on those relationships.
15. Be nice.
Last but not least is a brilliant little piece of social media advice from my friend @AdrianLeeSA. He doodled the secret to social media ROI (inspired by a post from @AnnTran_). It can be summed up in two words – Be nice!
Photo credits: FabianPimminger / @AnnTran_ / @MarshaCollier / @adamsconsulting / @AdrianLeeSA
Diana Adams is the founder and CEO of Adams Consulting Group, Inc. in Atlanta. Established in 2001, her company is now an esteemed member of the Apple Consultants Network and is rated one of the top independent Apple consulting firms in the southeast.
She’s written 4,000+ blog posts about technology, social media and geeky innovations. She loves new technology, Java Chips with extra drizzle, and any form of creativity. She’s also one of the biggest Star Wars fans in the world and is a frequent user of the force.
Diana graduated from USC, and she spends most of her time on the east coast. She is a social media addict, and you can find her on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook almost anytime of the day or night. Send her a tweet and say hello!
13 Replies to “15 Tips for How to Ask for Twitter Retweets the Polite Way”
How to ask for a retweet: Should I add the person’s “@username” at the beginning or at the end of the tweet?
Or is it better to contact the person by Email?
great stuff! quite helping!
Thanks for these tips. There is nothing, in my opinion, less professional than those automatic DM messages asking for retweets and follows. Even those that say thanks for the follow make me think about lack of creativity and personalization.
Thanks for this tips. There is nothing, in my opinion, less professional than those automatic DM messages asking for retweets and follows. Even those that say thanks for the follow make me think about lack of creativity and personalization.
I couldn’t agree with you more, Celeste! Thank you for stopping by today. 🙂
I totally love the idea of giving more retweets back when you get retweet. Totally — karma!
Good stuffs and makes all the sense. For those who retweeted my post, I usually send over a Favorite instead. Just a little thing to say “thank you!”
Thanks for sharing!
Hi Reginald! Thank you for reading my post and leaving such a nice comment. 🙂 Twitter favorites have become incredibly useful for so many reasons over the past few years. That’s a great use of them!
Okay this is what I am talking about. AWESOME TIPS!
One thing I could add would be to number 5.
“5. Tap into the magic of three. Use a link, an image, and a hashtag in the tweet you’d like retweeted. All three of these things will make your tweet more attractive and appear more retweetable.”
OPTION: You can add twitter cards to your website, you still get a image attached to your tweet, it takes up less room in the tweet and the image is clickable. No twitter cards, then an image is a really good idea.
(Using the Yoast plugin makes it fairly easy to add twitter cards)
My very best,
Sean Charles @SocialMediaSean
Thanks for all the Instagram love by the way.
Hi Sean!! It’s so great to see you here. I’m very happy you liked this post. 🙂 You gave some very good advice. And I looooove the Yoast plugin! You might be able to tell that it’s not used on this blog, but it is on most of the blogs where I guest post. And, of course, it’s my pleasure about IG. I get lost on that site. hahahaha Best wishes to you!
I concur with you Diana. Spammy DMs and DMers are a bother and a waste of time. If you want your retweets, engage, establish good relationships with other influencers, and you will get there – people will retweet what you’re contributing.
Thank you for stopping by and reading my post, Enock. 🙂 I completely agree with you. I just had a whole convo with @MarshaCollier about this recently. Have a great day!
Thanks for the post Diana!
After a 9-month hiatus, I rejoined the Twitter universe. A couple of weeks ago, after seeing a few DM’s with CrowdFire, I decided to try it.
That lasted a day!
I had followed an influencer. He then reciprocated, however that short-lived. Once I saw who had unfollowed me through CrowdFire, I looked at his profile to see a tweet, “Sending auto-DM’s to new followers with a link to your website is like moving in after the first date, without asking.”
Right away I got rid of the service.
Lesson learned very quickly!
Hi Jean. That is so funny!! Well, not really, but you know. Yeah, I’ve sent tweets like that before too (about how much I dislike auto-DMs). I get dozens of them every day, and after a while, it starts to wear on you (especially since those notifications eat away at my phone battery).
Thank you for stopping by and reading my post! Best wishes to you! 🙂